I don't mind being awaked before 1am....that's the only reason my phone is on. If I woke up at say, 3 or 4, I would put the phone on silent. Until just last week, I had to keep my phone on because it was my alarm clock--is that ok with you???

As for decency, I don't think that factored into it..I think it had to do more with the giggles that would result knowing that you arose me from a much needed beauty rest.