my boss asked me how she performed at said conference and i said "candy, you were the prettiest person on the panel"......the others were at least 60, grey, and one was a man. she didn't take it as a "compliment".

this old guy (who i refer to as pa pa) gave candy his resume last night. it was all i could do not to laugh--can you imagine an old grandfatherly type with a PhD editing documents with ME who is just filthy, and Candy, who is just a fruitloop?